BIG Weekend!!

Whew–What a weekend!

Friday Frank and I went to the DuPage County Seat to get our marriage license. The first question they asked (even before they asked us what our names are!) was “Are you related?” WHAT!??!?! Of course not!! EEEEK! Ew ew ew. Frank was so stunned by the question, he couldn’t even come up with a witty comeback. Shocking. So after we did that (we are now fully licensed, woohoo!), Frank went to work and I went shopping for food for Frank’s apartment and then I went home and ran some errands. Later in the afternoon I went for my FINAL fitting at Volle’s. I put on my princess dress and it fit PERFECTLY! OH MY GOSH!! It was awesome. I love my dress. It is beautiful! Mom and I put it in the car (very carefully!) and it is now hanging in the basement, waiting for the big day!

Friday night Frank and I had Jamie and Craig over to Frank’s new pad (soon to be mine!). Frank put together some yummy appetizers and we chatted before going to Fridays for dinner. We had a great time! Craig FINALLY asked Frank to stand up in their wedding and Frank said, “Yes” without much deliberation 😉 They also asked me to do a reading in their ceremony–woohoo!!!

Saturday I was up bright and early, in search of the elusive Crate and Barrel. I had a few things I wanted to return and I figured it would be oh-so-easy to find a C&B in Naperville. WRONG. The only C&Bs in Naperville are outlets or furniture stores–not places I could return things to from regular C&Bs. Oh well. Frank and I left for Champaign early in the afternoon for his friend Eric O’s wedding. His bride was stunning in a Maggie Sotero dress. The ceremony was beautiful and both the bride and groom were in tears as they exchanged their vows. After the ceremony, we went to Hawthorne Suites Hotel for the reception. They had lovely quiches and mini-quesadillas–YUM! Dinner was also very good and dessert was tiramisu–YUMYUMYUM! I was quite full! Once dinner was finished, the dance floor was opened up so that we could all “cut a rug.” After we had done some serious dancing, the bride and groom did the traditional bouquet and garter toss. I declined going on the dance floor for the bouquet–I mean, I’m getting married in less than 25 days!!! But Frank decided to have his last hurrah as a single man, and hopped out on the dance floor. The other guys were quite upset that Frank took a front position because of his height, so he wound up in the back of the pack. No matter–Frank STILL caught the garter! That’s my guy!!!! It turns out that Eric, the groom, caught that same garter at his friend’s wedding in June, so we decided to keep the tradition alive and we are using the same garter in our wedding–rah!!!

Sunday afternoon Frank and I had a dance lesson as well as a bridal shower at my friend Erin B’s house in Chicago. The shower was AWESOME!! They had amazing food, it was good to see sorority sisters and the dessert was fabulous! She served tiramisu cake and a chocolate mousse cake and everyone had to try both–YUUUUUUUUUUUUUUM! So good! After that, Frank and I were pretty exhausted.

So that was our weekend! Only 25 days until the BIG DAY!!!

Wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!

We received 12 RSVPs today and all but 2 were yes replies! That brings our total up considerably and means that we *probably* do not have to make any phone calls.

Tomorrow I get to try on and hopefully pick up my dress. We are also getting our marriage licenses, engraving our rings, adding FK to my checking account, getting the groomsmen’s gifts, getting my jewelry and all that fun stuff tomorrow. Well, I am using the royal “we” on most of those items–the only things Frank needs to be there for are the marriage license and the checking account. He has to work tomorrow while I get to enjoy another 3 day weekend–yippy!!!

There is still much to do before the wedding, but we are doing all right. Only 29 days to go!!

This I know about myself…

I know that I should not leave long voicemails. A simple, “Hey, this is Emily R. Please give me a ring back at this number. Thanks!” should be good enough. But no, I just can’t hang up the phone without babbling on and on. I just left one doozy of a voicemail for a supervisor in a different division. I told her all about a billing problem and how we need to discuss it when she has a free minute, etc. But see, I always leave out one important detail, such as, “By the way, this is for XYZ client” or “This is in reference to estimate 834” or anything that would give the poor listener a point of reference. Instead I probably frustrate and confuse the recipient which could be cause for them to NOT return my phone call–oy!

Anyway…

The couch is in!!! We will be receiving our most comfy sofa-sleeper on Friday, Aug 29th. This is HUGE! 🙂 Well, not quite as huge as the bed was. That was also a very important moment in our soon-to-be married lives, that’s for sure! And to think, we only have 30 days to go! EEEEK!

Yeehaw!

T-ONE MONTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh good heavens–only one month to go!!! Friday, Frank and I are going to pick up our marriage license, get our rings engraved, buy the groomsmen gifts, etc, etc. BUSY day!! I can hardly believe we only have 31 days until the wedding–I remember back when it was 100 and it seemed eons away!

Must get back to work for now! Cheers!

The Weekend!

Here goes the recap:

Friday–I left work and went home to do the lovely task of writing thank you notes. Don’t get me wrong–I appreciate everyone’s thoughtful gifts, but these thank you notes take a lot out of ya! I wrote and wrote until about 11 p.m. before crashing. Soooo sleepy!

Saturday–I had my first dress fitting since the dress was too short. THE DRESS IS PERFECT!!!! YAY!!! I was soooo happy, you have no idea. I felt beautiful, like a princess, in my dress!! I love it I love it I love it!! 😀 After that, I went down to Naperville to do a few things around the apartment before going to see Uptown Girls with Kim, Kate and Dorothy. The movie was very sweet. Due to my overly emotional nature these days (hormonal and otherwise), I was near tears through the whole thing. Eeeek! After the movie we chatted for a while and then the girls left. Frank came home from work shortly after that and we went to the River Walk in downtown Naperville. We had a delicious dinner at the Front Street Cantina and explored some of my favorite shops such as The Gap.

Sunday–I met up with Frank at work and we had a little barbeque with the guys from work. I grilled up some hamburgers and we had a lovely time. Frank’s second flight of the day canceled and we decided to use that time to do some furniture shopping. At Carson’s Home Gallery we found an awesome couch and chair that we both loved. At Target we found a TV stand and then at Circuit City we found a receiver for Frank’s speakers. All in all, a good shopping day! We went back to the apartment and manly-man Frank set up the TV stand while I put together dinner (home-run Inn Pizzas… yum!) After dinner, Frank’s friend and former co-worker Jeff A stopped over. He pledges to be our “Kramer”–staying at our house, answering our phone and eating our food. Delightful! Frank and Jeff left to go do guy stuff (ie. drink at a bar) and I stayed around for a little bit before going home. Yesterday was my dad’s birthday and today is my mom’s so on my way home, I picked up a delicious birthday cake for both of them and we sang happy birthday. YAY!

That’s all for now! Only 32 days to go until the BIG day! 😀 YAY!!!

La la la…

One of those days, I tell you. Kate A is coming to interview at my office. I hope she gets the job. I am definitely praying for her!!! Other than that… the countdown to W-Day continues: 37 days to go!!!

Tacky!

The client just called and left my boss a message letting us know that they are throwing a baby shower for another one of the clients at their office. He let us know that if all of us would like to get together and send a present, we certainly could! And he also mentioned that we might want to send the word to our parent company and tell them that if they would like to do the same, the could do that as well. How generous! So my boss came over and said that she was going to tell them they were throwing me a bridal shower and that if they wanted to send ME a gift, they could do that as well. Hee hee. I don’t think she’ll do that, but heck, if it means I’m going to get a present, yeehaw!

Another note…

Mysterious people seem to come across my blogger. Frank’s Aunt Sybil said that her daughter-in-law found the board and read it all the time. So hello to everyone out there that reads this journal!! You can feel free to email me at tallgrl98@aol.com if you would like!

We still have 38 days to go… crazy times!!!

Whew! What a weekend!

Friday: I drove from Chicago to Valparaiso, IN to pick up Kelly H. Then we drove down to Indianapolis to see John Mayer (aka my boyfriend). Driving from Indianapolis to the venue took us TWO hours. EEEEK. After the fabulous concert, it took us 2 hours to get home (minor glitches, really) and so we didn’t fall into bed until 2 a.m.

Saturday: We woke up early in the morning and played with Kelly’s nieces (we stayed at her sister’s house). After that, we left at 10 a.m. and stopped for lunch at Cracker Barrel. And THEN the fun began. I called the traffic expert, Frank, to find out which route we should take back into Chicago. The debate was between 80/94 or the skyway. Frank said to take the skyway because it is always open. Apparently that might be true during the weekdays, but during the weekend–HOLY COW!!! The road was soooo incredibly backed up and it took us 1 hour to go 2 miles. We were NOT happy campers to say the least. We decided to forego going back to my house and decided to stop at a gas station to change before going out for the night. We got to see a band we loved in college and experience Pork Fest at McGee’s. Good times!

Sunday: It was another early day because Frank’s family was having a shower for us. We arrived at the lake at 11 a.m., just in time to meet and greet the first guests. We didn’t leave Frank’s house until 7 p.m. Boy were we tired!!

Monday: I spent the late morning, afternoon and evening working on things around the apartment. It was so much fun!! I got a lot accomplished and was pretty pleased with myself. Yay!

Today I am back in the office. I am QUITE tired. It may be the food that I ate… not sure…

Only 38 days to go!!

Feeling a Little Better

Okay, so after lunch I calmed down a little bit. But I can feel myself still teetering on the edge of being angry–and for what!? My tummy is all in knots and I keep clamping down my jaw so that’s a little tight too. I cannot be a bundle of nerves now–I’m not even close to the wedding! Well, okay, I’m in denile. We are VERY close to the wedding and I wouldn’t have it any other way, but geesh–it sure is a lot to handle on so many fronts.

The only thing that keeps me from totally losing it is Frank. He is awesome. He is my rock and he makes me laugh and helps me through this crazy time. We are a good team together and I know that as long as we keep a team focused attitude, we will thrive. Well, that’s not the deciding factor in our impending marriage, but it’s one of our strong points as a couple. I just think the world of him.

So anyway… yes, feeling better. We will make it and I will be semi-sane! Thank God there is a honeymoon after the wedding!!!

What is WRONG with me!?

So I am Grouchy–AGAIN!? What the heck! I am not premenstrual, but I am just so emotional and I am not a happy person. I do okay all morning and then I get a phone call from Frank and I’m just *pissed*. And part of me just wants to get away and not deal with anything and part of me just wants to have a huge blow out fight with someone. I feel like I am on a war-path. I wish I was not like this, but I feel like I’m in an emotional rut!!!

I will write more later. Only 43 days to go!