Today I am 13 weeks pregnant. I thought it might be fun to start documenting what’s going on each week. I’ll try to use the same format each week. I will also try to include pictures – I actually have a little bump going already!
What’s new with the babies: The babies are 3 inches head to tush. If we’re having a girl or girls, she already has 2 million eggs in her ovaries. The babies now have finger prints.
How I feel: Great, but tired. I still have some weird aversions to herbs and spicy foods, which is killing Frank. I haven’t gained any weight, but I definitely have a bump starting. It’s especially noticeable when I lie down. Frank likes to talk to the babies, usually just saying, “Helllllloooo???”
Other thoughts: It’s still very surreal to me that I’m pregnant. I go through waves of acceptance and disbelief. Most of the time I am able to say, “OK, I am pregnant, this is really going to happen for us!” But then there are times where it’s just more than my little brain can fathom.
Our experiences with fertility treatments has made me abundantly aware of the fact that life is fragile. I know far too many women who have lost babies at various stages of their pregnancy, even well into the “safe” period. I don’t take for granted the fact that we are 13 weeks along. I treasure that we have seen our babies on five separate occasions and they were always developmentally where they should be (or measuring big… which is another post for another day). I love that Baby A was super active, propelling himself (or herself) across the sac, flipping over and sucking his thumb. I love that Baby B was chill – stretching out, waving his arms over his head and relaxing. I hope these sweet babies keep growing and thriving – we are looking forward to meeting them in person in less than 6 months!
One thought on “13 weeks”
At every phase there’s something to worry about, even once they’re here. That’s how it goes now that you’re a mommy.
Keep enjoying every minute because it goes so fast. Between the 2 little beans and Frank’s new employer great things are happening!